Student | Melbourne 2018
“10 months later, I’ve been through the most amazing relationship.
I’m writing this review almost 10 months after taking the Melbourne 4wn natural program with Alex and I look back on that time as one of the most impactful, life affirming and self-realising months of my life. I set aside all my commitments for that month and just treated it like a holiday in Melbourne (which was not my home city at the time) and allowed myself to completely unwind and follow the process with what I found to be a great coach and an awesome bunch of people. I approached the program with the goal of learning how to have more fun, I tried to take in all that Alex had to offer and put myself out there as much as I could which at first was exhausting for a shy and introverted person like myself. I found out very quickly that Alex is an exceptional coach with an incredibly honed (freakishly honed) skill set of reading people, personality types, and adjusting his coaching style to suite your needs. It was obvious Alex coached each person differently and I could see this reflected positively in their approach to socialising. Personally, he allowed me to share my story and everything that I felt like was making me feel upset or insecure (It all came out in our second night game session…), after making me feel heard and supporting me through my inner mental hurdles we began working on my goals. Alex provided simple drills and tasks each session, all of which were progressive in difficulty, highly useful and hilariously fun, each of them allowed me to unwind just that little bit more. It really did take until the end of the program, one of our last outings until I arrived at the bar and sat there with the group of guys and simply felt completely unrestricted, excited, open, comfortable and just happy to be there with no barriers between me and anyone in the bar. It was such a plain yet incredibly powerful experience that I still remember having that epiphany 10 months later, it was also an incredible relief having such a piece of mind in a social setting where it otherwise would have been reeling with all sorts of unhelpful thoughts. I honestly would never consider taking a program shorter than a month long because it really does take that much if not longer to make an impactful change on your lifestyle and habits. 10 months later, I’ve been through the most amazing relationship, now recently single, I found that all the lessons and positive experiences are still there fresh in my mind and I’ve had no hesitation in talking to anyone whatsoever. My future feels free and open and I hope you get the same thing out of it too.”