Achieve the dating abundance you've always wanted

Get access to the world’s best dating and pickup coach. Train live for 33 days in bars, clubs, parks, and bookstores. Achieve social success like you never had before.

4 Week Natural





14 November - 16 December 2019

Koh Samui

6 January - 8 February 2020


12 March - 13 April 2020


17 April - 18 May 2020


22 May - 22 June 2020


27 June - July 27 2020


31 July - 31 August 2020


4 September - 6 October 2020

New York

9 October - 11 November 2020

Alex is the most experienced dating coach in the world

I brought Alex into Real Social Dynamics because I wanted to learn from him...Alexander is one of the best in the game that has ever done it

RSD Tyler

Live Coaching Curriculum

  • Target selection: how to detect indications of interest
  • Incidental approaches: "It just happened"
  • Re-approach repeatedly to build familiarity without being needy
  • Create many leads, then double down on the best one
  • Establish physical comfort
  • Get accepted by her friends
  • Give her space to game you back
  • Escalate correctly and at the right time
  • Leave the venue with the girl smoothly without having to actively “pull”

  • Target selection: how to detect indications of interest
  • Incidental approaches: "It just happened"
  • Re-approach repeatedly to build familiarity without being needy
  • Create many leads, then double down on the best one
  • Establish physical comfort
  • Get accepted by her friends
  • Give her space to game you back
  • Escalate correctly and at the right time
  • Leave the venue with the girl smoothly without having to actively “pull”

  • Take control of your (lack of) motivation towards women
  • 33 day internalization that You Are Enough
  • Eliminate approach and social anxiety
  • Learn to see yourself as a leader to those you’re attracted to
  • Learn to enjoy rejection because you no longer see it as rejection at all
  • Liberate yourself to act freely in any situation
  • Face your darkest fears and biggest limitations under Alex’s guidance to reach resolution
  • Never be needy: internalize freedom from outcome
  • Reach relaxed arousal: state control and flow
  • Experience the enlightenment: acceptance of the self, the environment, and female psychology

  • Dynamic openers
  • Maintain confident posture and body language
  • Vocal coaching
  • Show empathy by giving people an out
  • Screen quickly and effectively for logistics and availability
  • Validate other's egos
  • Express a full range of emotions
  • Learn to talk infinitely
  • Win frame battles
  • Overcome initial rejection
  • Attractive self-amusement
  • Win-win game: Achieve social success while building up everyone around you

  • Establish an attractive frame immediately
  • Interact with her physically
  • Utilize Alex's arsenal of verbal lines that work
  • Create deliberate pauses
  • Keep her attention
  • Get girls qualifying themselves
  • Persist attractively
  • Be deliberately illogical
  • Give deep personality compliments
  • Create a fear of loss
  • Tailor your vibe to each individual girl
  • Master women’s shit tests
  • Build and maintain tension and arousal

  • Pick the right first photo to make her read more
  • Incorporate subsequent photos that check all the boxes
  • Write an engaging profile
  • Dating app photoshoot
  • Build your perceived value through Instagram
  • Keep her hooked over time
  • How to propose dates in a way where “no” doesn’t equal rejection

33 Days Live Pick Up Coaching Immersion

True Transformation

“I’ve done boot camps before, but I find myself falling back to old habits when going home”

Most dating coaches offer 3 day boot camps. Some offer 7 day immersions. But you know there is no such thing as a magic pick up line or technique. You didn’t come here for that. You’re here to become a better version of yourself – permanent and lasting transformation.

Work Exclusively with Alex, not an Assistant Coach

Alex will be your coach at every single session.

Most companies place you with an assistant coach for some of your infield sessions. Even though many guys want to be Alex’s assistant coaches, Alex doesn’t take them on because he knows you’re here to work with him directly.

24/7 Coaching Access + 16 Infield Sessions

You will have 8 day game sessions, and 8 night game sessions, and 8 bonus (inner game, tinder game, etc) sessions evenly spread out over the duration of 4 weeks. That’s the equivalent of 2.5 bootcamps!

In addition, you will be able to contact Alex 24 hours a day, 7 days a week throughout the entire program. Alex will never be far away, and you’ll be going out to the same venues.

Crush First Impressions

Alex will provide an ongoing fashion consultation to help you build your particular style and make sure you’re making a great first impression. You’ll go over hair, attire, grooming, and general visual aesthetics to perfect your look.

In addition, you will get an outlined health, workout, and nutrition game plan customized to you and designed to help you attain the look that you’d like to be able to achieve with your physique.

Get Girls on Dates

Do girls often seem warm in person, but then never respond after giving you their contact info?

Alex will teach you how to use text game and social media to make girls actually become MORE interested after the contact info exchange.

Convert Dates to Lovers

Say you meet a girl during the program. It might take a few days just to set up the date. With a bootcamp, your coach would already be long gone! But Alex will be there to help you every step of the way.

He’ll advise you on the best locations to go, what to do during the date and be right on the other side of the phone for any help you need DURING the date!

Win at Tinder

You will receive a full break down of your online dating accounts from improving your pictures to learning what to say. You will see real examples from Alex, see his personal accounts and learn how to get the same level of results INSTANTLY!


Besides coaching, Alex is also a professional photographer ( He’ll take professional-level pictures of you to take your Tinder profile to the next level.

Become a Stronger Version of You

It’s very hard to see at yourself from the outside the way others do. With experience, Alex has become extremely good at pinpointing the essence of your personality and how it affects how others perceive you. Blindspots, sticking points – Alex will tell you exactly what you need to do to make people perceive you as an attractive leader, and he’ll walk you through every step of building your new habits.

Achieve Your Life Goals

Four 1 on 1 sessions with Alex talking about fears, past experiences, hopes, and dreams.

Friends for Life

After spending 4 weeks with your fellow students and going out together again and again, you’ll have friends for life who are cool and socially experienced. The perfect wingmen!

Learn from the Best Infield Videos

Access to the best infield video library in the world. These are videos that are too sensitive to be shown on the internet.


Offering Value Price

4.5 RSD bootcamps*



10 day skillset training



10 day inner game mastery



10 day emotional transformation



Phone, text & date coaching



Infield pickup video content



Dating app photoshoot x 3



Fashion and style makeover






*Based on Derek RSD bootcamp 2019 ($3,300 for 3 days)

**NOTE: The price of the 4 Week Natural will go up to $3,997 on January 1, 2020

Frequently Asked Questions

4wN is the only program in the world designed to be taken alongside a 9-5 career. It's made to leave you with habits that will sustainable as opposed to giving you a crazy 3-day experience that will never transfer into your real life.


Alex will call you and assess your working hours and your other commitments, then structure your program to fit your schedule.


Of course, when we teach at vacation destinations such as Hvar and Thailand those are an exception. However, even there many students work remotely during the program.

4 Week Natural is designed to teach you to socialize with anyone, anywhere. Alex has coached every type of student so 4wN is effective both for beginners who are socially well adjusted as well as those who are socially maladjusted. If you’re a complete beginner who feels anxiety at the thought of approaching and talking to a stranger, let alone a beautiful girl, 4wN will open up a new world of connections for you.

If you’ve already made progress in the social arena, congratulations! Alex will very quickly assess your current level, and if you’re ready to absorb more advanced concepts he will jump you ahead to those. Whether you’ve come to this site because you’ve hit a plateau or because you’re just looking to fix the small mistakes that may be costing you results, learning from such an experienced coach is a very effective way to reach your true potential.

You’ll usually have 2 day game sessions and 2 night game sessions per week, as well as dedicated curriculum sessions. There will also be a 2 day recess about half-way through the program to allow you to relax, experiment on your own, or just spend time with your new wingmen from the program.


The exact dates and times are very flexible and will scheduled around your availability, commitments, and any unforeseen circumstances you run into.


You’ll also be able to request a session balance tiled more towards day game or night game if you prefer one over the other.

  • Day game: ~4-8
  • Curriculum: ~6-10
  • Night game: ~10:30-3

Yes. Alex knows you’re here to work specifically with a world leading coach and not an assistant coach. He doesn’t work with any assistant coaches.

At most 3:1. Other companies in the industry go as high as 15:1.


All students are welcome to join every session to absorb by spectating, but the 3 in-session students get Alex’s primary attention.

Take the date as a priority. Alex will reschedule your coaching session.

Students frequently get the common flu and we anticipate that. The program schedule is very flexible and we simply reschedule your sessions accordingly.

4wN is designed to be the last pickup program you’ll ever take or need. At the same, after completing your program you will always be welcome to join us on subsequent programs to wing with Alex and the students infield. May of our graduates join us later on for adventures, good times, to catch up, and to re-experience the glory that is the 4wN.

Because we don’t want to price out young ambitious men who can really benefit from this program.


The reason we can offer this cheap price is because 4wN has a strong and simple coaching structure with a direct coach-student connection. In addition, since we stay in the same city for 30 days, our travel and accommodation expenses are low.

Yes. This helps keep the program tuition inexpensive, and we can focus directly on teaching you rather than managing accommodations.


Some students opt for very humble accommodations while others opt for luxurious accommodations.

Once you pay the deposit we’ll add you to a Facebook group for your program. Alex will advise you on the best districts to stay in your chosen city. Many students get together and share Airbnb apartments for the month. Some good resources are,,

You’ll receive an email instructing you to connect directly with Alex and with the 4wN Facebook group for your program to allow you to organize your experience.

At the conclusion of the program, under the condition that you participated in full, you may ask Alex for a complete refund. You must ask in person on the last day of the program.

Yes, if you meet both of these conditions:

1. Notice is given to us at the latest 45 days before the start date of the program you signed.
2. When you contact us, it is still within 6 months since your deposit transaction date.

The cost of living greatly varies by city. You can check the price of accommodations on sites like Airbnb. Besides accommodations, living can be pretty cheap if you eat exclusively at grocery stores. In addition, Alex will ensure all venues you go to will be cheap or free.

No money is required. It’s at your discretion how much you want to invest to implement the advice Alex will give you. However, the recommendations are usually about 50-150 USD.

We allow up to a maximum of 9 applicants per city so that Alex can focus individually on each student, and give you the attention that you deserve.


This also gives us the chance to divide everyone into “crews” of 3 people based on lifestyle and demographics that can team up and work with each other through the program and beyond.

Take it easy on the alcohol during your program. Alcohol is not forbidden, but it’s also not encouraged. Alex will teach you to socialize in a non-inhibited without alcohol. If he feels you’re getting carried away with alcohol, Alex will point it out to you and will get you back on track.

Yes! It’s true, and you can even earn your polo shirt before the end of the program for enthusiastic participation.

4wN uses extensive media to share the experience online, but all students’ names and images will be censured and strictly protected.

Yes. Alex has a fleet of iPads with all of his uncensored infield video for you to watch and learn from at your discretion during the program. These iPads contain all of Alex’s infield video since the beginning of time which can’t be found anywhere online. Since they’re uncensored, these videos are extremely sensitive.

In rare cases, we do have students with conditions. Be sure to discuss any conditions that may impact your learning experience in depth with Alex before your program start date. Alex is trained as a psychologist to deal with a wide range of psychological or behavioral conditions.

Our ideal applicant is someone who’s a high-achiever, self-respecting, willing to invest in themselves, and wants to master every part of their life.

Yes. Once you place your deposit, you get a 75% discount on our online learning resources. Alex created 3 programs designed to complement the 4 week natural: once each about night game, day game, and inner game. You will be referred to them upon placing your deposit.

Any other questions? Get in touch!

Apply for 4 Week Natural Coaching

  • Make an application to Alex to ensure this program is suitable for you.
  • Place initial deposit of $999
  • Alex contacts you
  • Join Facebook event group with the other students on your program
  • Coordinate your accommodation
  • 33 day program

Placing a deposit does not guarantee acceptance into the program. If, after speaking with you, we consider you to be unable to complete the program, will not fit into the culture of the program, or might diminish the experience of other students, your deposit or payment will be refunded directly to your account with no charges incurred. If you are not accepted into the 4 week natural you apply for, we will advise you how you can make a successful application in the future. 

Questions: contact us at [email protected]